I remember playing the game of Hide and Seek, when we were given a few minutes to run and hide, lest we be found and tagged. But LIFE doesn’t usually give us warnings. We get daily reminders that life is fragile and limited, and yet, so many of us are unprepared to face our final moments.
There are so many things that catch us unawares, no matter how we prepare or how well we hide – under the covers or in our busy-ness. People are leaving, others are disrupting our way of life by changing the rules, creating uncertainty. Even Mother Nature is less predictable. If we truly knew when the game ended, would we live life differently for whatever time is left?
No matter how well I plan to have my life and things in order, to do the things I want to accomplish, to tell the people I love how much they mean to me, or write what I hope will be a legacy of love and inspiration, I find myself hoping for ‘just a little more time’.
Celebrating a birthday recently, made me poignantly aware that I have way less time on this earthly plane than when I arrived. At first, it was hard, thinking about not being HERE. And yet, it made it even more important to live life with joy and so much gratitude.
I have an opportunity to focus more on who and what are most precious in my life.
- I enjoyed three weeks with my sweet, 96-year-old mom, her faithful dog Jaxson, as well as, a childhood friend, and family, appreciating each hug, conversation and I love you.
My time spent walking outdoors enhanced the beauty of springtime in New England. Every day showcased new flowers opening and the beauty of blossoming trees.- Returning home to my love, Francesco, made a beach walk even more special. We left footprints in the sand, not concerned about them being washed away, as we held hands and enjoyed the flight of birds against the setting sun.
Each day I am more conscious of what I might leave behind. How can I give a warm smile, express a kind word, send a caring card or email, give someone a hug, a helping hand, or make a donation to those in need, hoping they create ripple effects in their wake? I don’t leave it up to chance. I try to walk out the door or end a call or visit with an “I love (or appreciate) you” to those I hold dear.
Ready or not, life’s unpredictability has made me aware of how precious each moment is. Every day I’m working on worrying less and enjoying each present moment more with whomever I am with, lovingly and gratefully.
I want to let you, my readers, know what a ‘gift’ it is writing and sharing my blogs monthly for over 14 years. And I hope to have many more opportunities to express what touches my heart and gives me hope. Thank you for your friendship, feedback and inspiration.
Much love,
Linda Commito
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